Community Rules
Grumle is a peer-to-peer recovery space.
These rules exist to protect people, not to control them.
The spirit of Grumle
Grumle is:
- human
- private by default
- supportive
- recovery-focused
It is not:
- social media
- a replacement for therapy
- a place to expose others
- a place for arguments or pile-ons
Please stay focused on personal sharing, not on debating or exposing others.
Core principles
- Talk about yourself
- Protect privacy
- Be honest and be kind
- Strong feelings are allowed; attacks are not
- Safety comes first
If something conflicts with these, it won’t be posted.
What’s welcome here
You’re welcome to:
- share your own experience
- be unsure, angry, tired, or stuck
- write imperfectly
- stay anonymous
- change your mind
Pain is not a rule-break.
What’s not allowed
To protect everyone, we don’t allow:
- naming or identifying other people
- photos of other people
- harassment, threats, or intimidation
- hate speech or calls for violence
- instructions for harm or illegal activity
These boundaries are firm.
Privacy matters
- No names of others
- No identifying details
- When in doubt, keep it private
Moderators may remove details even if intent was good.
Moderation
Moderation is:
- safety-first
- calm
- transparent
The goal is care, not punishment.
Final note
Grumle works because people protect the space together.
You don’t need to be perfect.
You do need to be respectful.